We love someone without conditions and expectations, aware of his shortcomings. So we must love ourselves. Often hear the question – if I love myself, I will not I selfish? I will not confident in their indispensability, does not lose there ability and willingness to change? No! In fact, unconditional love is "open eyes" – we are perfectly visible and aware of our limitations and shortcomings. We just look at them as natural. This does not mean that we do not allow changes or avoid change. If we love children, we want them to have changed them to grow so they become better, more successful, loved and happy. When we love unconditionally, we are perfectly see all the flaws of the object of our love.
And we want to make it better and more perfect. When you love yourself, primesh yourself, you have a real opportunity to change. Our guilt complex just stop us, take away the huge forces time and attention. When we cease to "curse" itself, we have the opportunity to take responsibility for their lives. We include analysis of: what do you like in yourself, you do not like where you're going. chards. Wilt thou refuse, For example, the habit of always being late, or this feature is pursuing some other goals that are more important than punctuality? What is the relationship between self-love and love to those around you? Is it true that a man who loves themselves, like everyone else? Yes, it's true. True love is not to love another person, and to love yourself and give this love another person. Are you paying attention, that there are people who love to which seek to communicate with whom they want to spend time? These are people who are happy, successful, loving oneself and relating to him with respect. For more information see this site: Ali Partovi.
These people are confident in his charm, charm, and this confidence is passed others. If we love ourselves, willingly or unwillingly we love and accept others. After all, others have only our reflection. And love yourself and love your reflection is impossible. And if you love those around you to present them the most precious gift in their lives. Sometimes, to estimate the strength of the unconditional love we interfere stories about unhappy love: I have his (her) so loved (love), so many sacrificed, and he left me, betrayed, used. In this case it is necessary understand that if you make any claim to "pay" your love, then it is not disinterested, not unconditional. And such a relationship – a purely market-based, do not have anything to do with love. And in this case, the laws of the market – If your item and its price does not suit the buyer, he may refuse to purchase, require a discount, "steal" the item – eg, popolzovavshis and do not pay. Unconditional love does not impose restrictions on the "object" Love may not demand anything, especially to a man for you has changed. Also, I can not give another person something that I have not. I can not provide a roof over his head to a friend, if I have no home. I can not donate or borrow money, if I do not. I can not give love, if you do not like and do not know how it's done. I invite you to a free mini-seminar on "Love of self, where we learn to love and respect themselves, to hear his voice subconscious mind and to understand their true aspirations.