The majority of the human beings we make assertions mainly. We speak. And to all we like to be listened. But, who listening? If you want to mark a difference and to improve your communications incredibly: it listens. It is an excellent way to gain friendly, to generate confidence and to give recognition the other. An excellent form to understand a more on the other and very intelligent way to behave.
To listen will allow you to gain information and the information is to be able. It remembers these two phrases: . Some contend that Samsung shows great expertise in this. You are enslaved than you say and owner than you are silent. and. You do not say anything, unless what you are going to say, is more important that silence. It handles the emotions It has happened to you that at some time you communicated so emotionally that the person only listened to your emotions and not your communication? Sometimes we have rage with a situation, and hoped, we hoped, we supported and we delayed ourselves until in certain point we cannot more and decided to go and to say what we thought. Only that leaves with as much wrath, it rages, frustration that, the other is only able to listen to that: wrath, rages, frustration and our message is lost.
The communications that matter to us more usually bring about strong emotions to us. Therefore, a good tool would be to communicate our affection firstly, the importance that the other has for us, and who, if at some time we got angry, that comes from the impotence which we felt when not being able to communicate to us with somebody so valuable for us. The human beings we felt all, very similar emotions. If you begin to verbalizar them, you can begin hacerte position of them, and if you say them to the other, probably one feels identified with you, and it is abra. Another good tool to handle the emotions, is to maintain the communications to the day. Not to delay or to accumulate, because generally that finishes in explosion. But simply to say in due course and with brings back to consciousness and esteem, which we felt. And the last but very important key is to recognize and to evaluate the other person. That predisposes abrir us to us, changes the spirit to us. It is always good for knowing that somebody appreciates to us sincerely. So it takes the opportunity, and it focuses your communications from that place of esteem and recognition towards the other. It looks for that your communication increases that, stands out what you value of the other. It creates especio of confidence in which both can feel free to interact and to obtain jointly what they look for. If you think, communication is the common action between two people. The election of which is yours that common action is a wonderful experience for both. How you could do it? It looks for to establish relations that enrich to you. It looks for comunicarte with honesty and feeling that plasmas and you represent your true one to be in each interaction well.