A lot of women and men come to the consultation, indignant, angry, hopeless, because your partner does not love them as they want, need or want. Then the abuse so that compliance is inserted into the very heart of the relationship … Abuse is a matter of nuances, ranging from time management, to how to make love, to express themselves, to do things a certain Thus, the application of interest and manner of speaking, like dressing up and maintain a good attitude towards various social groups, where the couple interacts. The reality is that the questions and answers are found elsewhere in the wickedness or goodness of my partner, but as for me I admit, that is, every circumstance of abuse, inequity, that I feel are going through above what I want, need or want, call it, partner, children, friends, then surely I am a person who allows the abuse. Yes actually I am a person who permit and it is because I have not found other ways of relating, and told me I needed to be and consents. But today, it is important to go back in time and see and realize, yes in a mome nt of child or adolescent, I had to take, today, I have the ability to reflect and know, still, when I abused emotionally, physically or psychologically, it was a time, a moment, but today is different, I can now do things differently …
But no more, requires Back to our worries and anxieties, our meetings and misunderstandings, our pain and heartache, but also what if we experience fully. Keep an abusive relationship is like not caring about ourselves, but after all,,, what is living, living for the other, that neither see me, or care, then, only in this sense, the questions remain open : do I want for myself and my partner? How do you want? In what ways need to be loved or you Yeah none of these conditions happen in my life partner, questions spread like stones in the pond: I want a partner, what I want, but above all: What am I willing to give and accept or not, for this suc eda? If you are interested in issues of this column and, if not write me too. We offer workshops and courses anywhere in the world … thanks for reading, my mission is the quality of emotional life … Contact: on With the acquisition of it, has three free consultations via e – mail and if bolrtin nuestto you enter will receive free electronic material. The Ten Commandments of married life ..